Western infidel women! Read this before saying "I do" to a Muslim man...
A Muslim man is asking for your hand in marriage, and you have [madly] fallen in love with his bronze Middle Eastern complexion. He seems to be intelligent, romantic, handsome, kind of rich, well-educated and well-mannered, too! He shows deep love and affections towards you. Showers his unlimited attentions, caresses; he really really cares for you and your heart flutters when you hear his voice or when you are near him…. You are attracted to him like to none other!
So, what more can a woman ask for in life? This most eligible bachelor is also a Muslim!
"There will be no problems", he will say, adding: "you can keep your religion, I will keep mine". It is indeed true that Islam does allow a Muslim man to marry a Christian woman [infidel]. But is it true that there will be no problems in such a marriage?
To answer this question, a Western [infidel] woman has to examine what it is like to be a Muslim's wife?
Below is a 'Crash Course' on being a Muslim wife. All Western infidel women must familiarize with it before marrying a Muslim.
Muslim Wife’s Status!
- Islam teaches that Muslim men are superior to women. (Surah 2:228)
- Islam teaches that women have half the rights of men:
- In inheritance (Surah 4:11)
- In court witness (Surah 2:282)
- Islam considers a wife to be a personal possession of the husband.
"Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: women and sons, heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses..." (Surah 3:14)
- Islam commands women to veil themselves always when they are outside their homes:
“…says to the believing women... that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty” (Surah 24:31)
- Mohammed teaches that women are lacking in brain and religion:
"I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than women". (Al-Bukhari 2:541)
- Mohammed teaches that women are a bad omen:
"Bad omen is in the women, the house and the horse". (Al Bukhari 7:30)
- Mohammed taught that women are harmful to men.
"After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women". (Al Bukhari 7:33)
Status of Your Muslim Marriage!
- Islam allows polygamy for men:
“A man may marry up to four wives at one time.” Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four...” (Surah 4:3)
- A Muslim man can divorce his wife by oral announcements; the wife has no right to divorce at all.
"Divorce is permissible twice". (Surah 2:229)
- When a Muslim husband has pronounced divorce three times on his wife, she then may not lawfully remarry her husband until she has married another man, properly consummated the marriage and has been divorced by her new husband.
"...So if a husband divorces his wife he cannot after that, remarry her until after she has married another husband, and he has divorced her". (Surah 2:230)
- Islam teaches that a wife is subject to punishment by her husband; beating a wife or abstaining from sexual relations with her is legally allowed under Islamic Sharia.
"As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them, refuse to share their beds, beat them..." (Surah 4:34)
Your Muslim Sex Life Status!
Islam considers wives as a sex-object.
"Your wives are as a tithe [a field to be ploughed] unto you, so approach your tithe when or how ye will". (Surah 2:223)
Status of Your Muslim Children!
Your children have to be raised according to their Muslim father's religion, i.e. Islam. If he divorces you, he gets complete custody of all your children; you wouldn't be able to see your children ever again.
The Islamic Sharia Law states that in mixed marriages, "the children will follow the better of the two religions of their parents", which in your case is considered as Islam! The Koran explicitly states that Islam is the only true religion:
"…the true religion before Allah is Islam" (Surah 3:19).
Non Muslims [infidels] can not act as protectors to Muslims.
"O ye who believe; take not for friends [protectors] unbelievers rather than believers". (Surah 4:144)
Your Future Status as a Muslim Wife!
Should you survive your Muslim husband, and his wealth is in an Islamic country, the Islamic Sharia Law will apply henceforth. The wife, who has not converted to Islam, gets nothing; the wife, who has converted to Islam, gets very little. According to the Koran, a Muslim wife does not inherit all her husband's wealth. If the husband dies and he leaves no children, she gets a fourth of his wealth, his parents, brothers, uncles etc. will get the rest. If the deceased husband leaves any children behind, the wife gets an eighth part of the property; the children get the rest. The male child gets double the portion of the female.
"In what ye leave, their [wives] share is a fourth if you leave no child; but if you leave a child, they [wives] get an eighth; after payment of legacies and debts." (Surah 4:12)
Before You Say "I DO" to a Muslim!
Before you commit yourself to marry a Muslim, it is a good idea to examine their motives behind marrying you. While your motive may be true love, his motive could be just to obtain a "Green Card".
They say, "Love is blind". But I, however, hope that this message will serve as an eye-opener for you.
You may say that your husband-to-be is a non-practicing Muslim. But let's not forget that, Islam is more than a religion; it includes complete legal codes for Muslims and non-Muslims to follow in an Islamic State! In case of a dispute between you and him, all he needs to do [to get the upper hand over] is for you is to travel to an Islamic country.
If you are still in doubt, may I suggest that you see the movie "Not without my daughter", which is based on a true life-story of an American woman, who married a Muslim man. Other similar movies are: "Princess", "Dreams of Trespass", and "The Stoning of Soraya M".
This may be a life-saving experience. The lives you will save are your own, your families and those of your future children.